"Bachelor" Ben Flajnik decision ", driven by the pants"

As another season ends "The Bachelor" in tears, tells MTV News why an expert soap operas both really.
Thus, a new season of ABC's "The Bachelor" has come and gone, with 29 years of age, Sonoma winemaker Ben Flajnik proposed a 28-year-old model Courtney Robertson in the final last night. She accepted his proposal, but was revealed in "The Bachelor: After the Final Rose" special post-exposure (surprise!) who had broken ... you know, like almost any other partner more about "The Bachelor" and "The Bachelorette".
(Flajnik and Robertson have since reconciled and reports.)
Only two couples in the 16 seasons of "The Bachelor" or eight seasons of "The Bachelorette" are still together. Bachelorette Trista season is married and has two children with Ryan Sutter, and the seventh season of Ashley Hebert is engaged JP Rosenbaum. The couple is expecting their first child and planning a fall 2012 wedding.
This season of "The Bachelor" was very controversial. Flajnik, the rider was in the seventh season of "The Bachelorette" was not called a "fan favorite", and Robertson was so popular with the public who was booed when, during the scene after the special show.
"People do not hate Ben because he knows his way around a bottle of shampoo. People hate him because he was led through his pants, "Hollywood Life editor Denise Warner tells MTV News. "Everybody could see that thinking with his libido, and not the head or the heart when he and Courtney. The only thing these two have in common is that Courtney Love naked and Ben wants to see .... painful at first, was annoying and a little sad when Ben kept succumbing to the charms of false sole purpose seemed to be Courtney Courtney in the program -. in his words and Charlie Sheen - ". win "It makes sense 28 years rapidly aging. of her modeling career and the need to do something else."
Warner has two points of these amounts, or why "The Bachelor" or "The Bachelorette" is hardly a bastion of lasting love. It is essentially a game show, season after season increasingly laden with glory-seekers. Warner notes that some participants continued his career in show business after the fair, including Melissa Rycroft and Fedowtosky Ali, and that it "would be surprised if Courtney did not get at least an invitation for next season" Dancing With The Stars' -. It seemed his goal from the beginning "In addition, the relatively short period of participants will be given to the other and off the field of artificial environment is sufficient to know the male and female to the possibility, if physically attracted by the other when they are compatible with emotion.
"Sexual chemistry without a solid base is not a recipe for romance," said Warner. "Each participant and the star was under a microscope for a short time, thrown into unrealistic situations - picnics wild, while hanging on the Matterhorn, the nights in Hong Kong, helicopter flights by dozens -. And is expected to lasting love, but what happens when the cameras are off? They face a reality that is presented on television. And not enough. "
In the case of Robertson and Flajnik, that's exactly what happened. Once the program began airing, Flajnik struggled to reconcile their perception of Robertson saw the cartoon character on the show. (There are rumors that her kissing other women, which he denies.) The couple struggled to work once they were outside the "natural situation" of living with 25 women vying for the affections of a man.
"As an engaged couple and a man, I feel like I should stay with you all the way, instead of taking steps backward and need time out. It was not just to you," Robertson said Flajnik the after school program. "It was my coping mechanism. This is not the way I work in real life, and we are about to begin real life."
What Flajnik The declaration makes clear that knowledge of Robertson of how he handles difficult situations which approximates that of a simple knowledge of a romantic partner - and is in direct conflict with how they run things. In "real life", however, are rarely known to commit millions of people watching.
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